Thursday, September 23, 2010

Hummm.....

At what age do we as females stop hitting the clubs...ok so I'm 29 yrs old and my friends and i always talk about what age we are gona be when we just stop clubbing all together. So we set an age of 35..but lately I've been feeling like i wana stop now... to be honest we tend to only go out on Wed, but we do miss nights. I dont feel old by any means but it truly burns me out. I sleep forever the next day and I neglect my family...And the drinking thats a hole other story. Our favorite drink is RED BULL VODKA,and trust me after a night of drinking about 3 or 4 of those the day after isn't going to be nice. I have been noticing that the younger people are starting to show up ,you know the 90's babies. It just doesn't sit well with me to be on the dance floor with all the 21 yr olds. Its like I start to feel like I just shouldn't be there. So I asking what is the age Adults should stop going to the clubs?

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

What If it were YOU......

Tamica and Carla have been friends for over five years. They were close friends from the day they met. They even lived together for a short time during their friendship.Many years down the line,Tamica became the Godmother of Carla's daughter. So they have a really good friendship more like sisters some would say. Tamica found herself without a cell phn line so Carla being a good friend offered Tamica to add a phone to her account. This lasted for about 3 months no problems. Everything was fine,until one day. Now i would like to remind u of the fact that Tamica had never went without paying a bill. Carla went on a weekend camping trip the very week the bill was due. Knowing this Tamica tried contacting Carla to ensure the bill was paid by sending messages,IE facebook,text and voicemail. They all went unanswered. Tamica thought she would just call the payment in over the phone. However she didn't know the last four of Carla's ssn number to gain accsess to her account. Tamica thought it would be a good idea to just wait for carla to return from her weekend trip to pay the bill with Carla. So i know most of u can guess what happened next. Both lines were disconnected came Monday morning. Tamica's Husband Derrek received a not so nice voicemail from Carla about the no longer active lines. Carla took it upon herself to pay her portion and not notify Tamica Sunday evening. The message that was left on Derrek's voicemail  went something like this...Derrek this is Carla and Tamica didn't pay her portion of the bill. She doesn't need to wait for me to pay her bill, I am pissed that now i don't have my phone. Tell her I will be removing her from my account, but I would LIKE IT if she would go pay her part. So Carla found old paper work and was able to pay the bill due to finding Carla's ssn number. As Tamica paid the bill she requested her line be canceled and Tamica sent a message to Carla expressing her side of the story. Tamica asked Carla why didn't you just call me so we could pay the bill together over the phone. Now they're no longer friends. I sit here and wonder what went wrong with carla and Tamica. These are people I know, and to me it seems as if something else was going on that Tamica didn't know about. This was a good friendship so we all thought and now it has ended over a misunderstanding. What would you have done if u were Tamica,or Carla?